Her Name Is Alice

When my third child was born, I was told I had a boy. The baby was given a boy’s name and raised in that gender. But when she died, twenty years later, she died as my daughter, and will forever be remembered that way.

She had a different name for many years, but this is commonly referred to as a 'deadname'

and I won't use it, whether I'm writing about her before or after her transition.